Christmas Reflections 2021

 A VERY BERRY CHRISTMAS!             Merry Christmastide & Happy New Year from The Bondurants 2021

 

 

Remembering that it happened once,

 

We cannot turn away the thought,

 

As we go out, cold, to our barns

 

Toward the long night’s end, that we

 

Ourselves are living in the world

 

It happened in when it first happened,

 

That we ourselves, opening a stall

 

(A latch thrown open countless times

 

Before), might find them breathing there,

 

Foreknown: the Child bedded in straw,

 

The mother kneeling over Him,

 

The husband standing in belief

 

He scarcely can believe, in light

 

That lights them from no source we see,

 

An April morning’s light, the air

 

Around them joyful as a choir.

 

We stand with one hand on the door,

 

Looking into another world

 

That is this world, the pale daylight

 

Coming just as before, our chores

 

To do, the cattle all awake,

 

Our own white frozen breath hanging

 

In front of us; and we are here

 

As we have never been before,

 

Sighted as not before, our place

 

Holy, although we knew it not.

 

            -Wendell Berry

 

Ben and I have been immersed in the words and world of Wendell Berry* this past year through his fictional Port William series as well as many of his lectures based on his essays. I’ve also enjoyed his poetry immensely, so I thought it appropriate to share this Christmas poem with you.

 

It is hard to put Wendell Berry into words, or to describe how being immersed in the world of Port William has formed our affections and thoughts this past year. His Port William series has reawakened in us a desire for rootedness and deep community and has further grown in us a passion for the stewardship of God’s creation and the beauty of tending the earth. This series has also reminded us of the sacredness of the ordinary- ordinary people, ordinary lives, ordinary communities, and the importance of place- of loving and caring for the place God has placed us in at this given moment.

 

“He saw a lot of places, and he came home. I think he gave up the idea that there is a better place somewhere else. There is no “better place” than this, not in this world. And it is by the place we’ve got, and our love for it and our keeping of it, that this world is joined to Heaven.” (Hannah Coulter, Wendell Berry)

 

We encourage you to read the Port William series as well, (and any and all other Wendell Berry for that matter!) and that you would be inspired to love and keep your “place”- the piece of God’s creation that He has entrusted to you, and that by doing so you would experience the joy that comes as your world is joined to Heaven.

 

This Christmas season, let us remember that Christ too came to a place and a people. We are living in the same world into which He first came, and He will come again to make all things new- all of the ordinary places, people, and communities. Come, Lord Jesus!

Born by our birth

 

Here on the earth

 

Our flesh to wear

 

Our death to bear

 

-Wendell Berry

 

Christmas Reflections 2020

 

Thanksgiving in Colorado, 2020

Change. People vary in their fondness or dislike of change. It’s said that “a change can do you good”, and “a change is as good as a rest”, etc., but I’d dare say that even the most spontaneous among us have not loved the changes that 2020 brought with the arrival of covid and the “new normal.”  I’m sure that many of us have come to be thankful for the some of the changes, while at the same time bemoaning others. Our family has been thankful to have Ben working from home, but struggled tremendously with not being able to go to church for 3 months. There have definitely been both blessings and difficulties during this season.

 

 I am so very thankful that in a world that is constantly changing, due to coronavirus and otherwise, that my God remains the same. In a world that is uncertain, I can trust the steadfastness of Christ. During the last 9 months, I have often found myself absolutely overwhelmed by the magnitude and swiftness of the changes, so I have had to constantly remind myself of these truths. I read from a book most mornings that follows the church calendar and the second week of Advent the theme was “In Change, Unchanged”.  I want to share a reading that particularly touched me by J. Campbell Shairp:

 

’Twixt gleams of joy and clouds of doubt

our feelings come and go;

Our daily state is tossed about

in ceaseless ebb and flow.

No mood of feeling, form of thought,

is constant for a day;

But Thou, O Lord, Thou changest not,

the same Thou art alway.

 

 We try to keep focused on these truths each and every day, but I have found that traditions that usher us into observing the church season and focusing our attention on Christ, further aid us in this endeavor. This year especially I have really appreciated our Advent and Christmas traditions. It seems that in a world so uncertain and constantly changing, that lovely traditions bring so much comfort and they provide us with some deep rooting. In our family we try to very intentionally observe a slow and simple Advent, focusing on the waiting leading up to Christ’s birth, and reminding us that we are still waiting for His second coming.

 

 To read more about our Advent & Christmas traditions, please visit https://chalbond.blogspot.com/2019/12/update-on-favorite-advent-and-christmas.html 

 

We pray that whatever traditions your family observe point you to Christ, the steadfast & unchanging One.

 

“Life’s sorrows still fluctuate; God’s love does not, And His love is unchanged, when it changes our lot.”

 –Lytton

 

Christmas Reflections 2019

Groaning. Waiting. Hoping.

The definition of “groan”, according to Merriam-Webster, is “to utter a deep moan indicative of pain, grief, or annoyance”. Synonyms for groan are howl, moan, lament, and wail. Now, if you don’t mind me asking, have you experienced any groanings this past year?

 I feel more groaning in my heart this year than I have in past Advent and Christmas seasons. I groan over the death and loss that I and those close to me have experienced, and the depth of that grief for those I dearly love. I groan over the fact that many of my friends are struggling with autoimmune diseases or children with difficult diagnoses.  I groan over the continual conflict in the Middle East and the refugee crisis. I groan over the many conservation crises currently looming. I groan over all the many injustices in this world. I groan. I lament. I wail. What about you? 

A passage of Scripture that I’ve been pondering a lot lately speaks to these groanings.

“18 For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us. 19 For the creation waits with eager longing for the revealing of the sons of God. 20 For the creation was subjected to futility, not willingly, but because of him who subjected it, in hope 21 that the creation itself will be set free from its bondage to corruption and obtain the freedom of the glory of the children of God. 22 For we know that the whole creation has been groaning together in the pains of childbirth until now. 23 And not only the creation, but we ourselves, who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait eagerly for adoption as sons, the redemption of our bodies. 24 For in this hope we were saved. Now hope that is seen is not hope. For who hopes for what he sees? 25 But if we hope for what we do not see, we wait for it with patience.” Romans 8:18-25

To begin a Christmas reflection focused on groaning isn’t very cheery is it? In fact, a couple of antonyms for groaning are rejoicing and exaltation. I think to truly experience the Christmas season one must allow space for both the groaning and the rejoicing. 

I imagine Mary, the mother of Jesus, experienced some magnitude of labor pains. I imagine she probably groaned as our Savior was born that night. It is because of these groanings that my groanings can also give way to rejoicing. She experienced the groaning of labor pains to deliver the One that would one day deliver us.  About 33 years later that Deliverer would experience His own groanings as He died upon the cross. And because death could not hold Him, His groanings gave way to rejoicing when 3 days later He rose from the grave. We too can rejoice!

Yet today we still groan. Still lament. Still wail. It is true that in this world we all experience and witness a multitude of sufferings. So we groan… It is also true that those that follow Christ have a confident assurance (hope) that one day these groanings will end once and for all when Christ comes again. It is through this hope that we can rejoice in the midst of the groaning. The present sufferings cannot even compare to the rejoicing we will experience for all eternity for those that know Christ. 

We can only experience that hope by knowing the Deliverer. It is through knowing that Deliverer, Jesus Christ, that we can rejoice in the midst of the groanings. We can rejoice because we are dearly loved and forgiven. We can rejoice because He hears our groanings and He cares. We can rejoice because one day He will return and make all things new. He is our Hope and it is for Him that we wait.

  We groan. We lament. We wail. 

We rejoice. We hope. We wait.

Christmas Bells...2016 Christmas Reflections

by Carl Larsson

Christmas Bells I HEARD the bells on Christmas Day their old, familiar carols play, and wild and sweet the words repeat of peace on earth, good-will to men! * And thought how, as the day had come, the belfries of all Christendom had rolled along the unbroken song of peace on earth, good-will to men! * Till ringing, singing on its way, the world revolved from night to day, a voice, a chime, a chant sublime of peace on earth, good-will to men! * Then from each black, accursed mouth the cannon thundered in the South, and with the sound the carols drowned of peace on earth, good-will to men! * It was as if an earthquake rent the hearth-stones of a continent, and made forlorn the households born of peace on earth, good-will to men! * And in despair I bowed my head; "There is no peace on earth," I said; "For hate is strong, and mocks the song of peace on earth, good-will to men!" * Then pealed the bells more loud and deep: "God is not dead, nor doth He sleep; the wrong shall fail, the Right prevail, with peace on earth, good-will to men." by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow (1807-1882) 

 This poem was written during the Civil War, but it seems as if it could have been written yesterday. This is one of the poems our family is reading and reflecting on during this Advent season and almost every time I have read through it, I tear up in the last two stanzas. There doesn't seem to be much "peace on earth" right now does there? Hate is very strong and animosity is very real right now. Our nation may not be in the middle of an actual civil war, but it seems more divided than it has been in a long time. My heart has been heavy when I think of the evil and the pain and the social injustices in our country and in the world. There certainly doesn't seem to be much peace abounding these days. I have definitely bowed my head in despair a lot lately.

 Then I continue reading the last stanza and I can almost hear Longfellow shouting "God is not dead." Or maybe that's just how I read it, because I need to shout it to myself. I need this truth to get down deep into my soul. You see, I know God is not dead, but when I sink into despair and sadness I can almost begin acting and feeling as if He is. Yet, He is not! He is very much alive. He's alive and He is still in control. Although we might not be able to find much peace in this world right now, we can turn to Christ, who is the ultimate Peace. Jesus says in the Scriptures, "Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid. " Jesus gives us a peace that transcends current events and the circumstances of our lives and the world. Jesus gives a peace that passes all understanding. He gives peace to the family that just buried their baby. He gives peace to the young widow left with 3 small children. He gives peace to the refugee wandering from country to country. He gives peace to those worried about our country's future. He gives peace to those who know Him as the Prince of Peace.

 You see, "peace on earth" was forfeited when Adam and Eve first sinned in the Garden of Eden, and we've been sinning and forfeiting our peace ever since. There's always been hate, and murder, and strife. A simple survey of human history will clearly show this. There is nothing new under the sun. Yet, 2,000 years ago a man came to bring peace to each human soul. Without a relationships with Jesus, the Prince of Peace, we will know only turmoil, anxiety, and even hate at times--more often than we'd care to admit probably. But because of God's great love for mankind, He sent Jesus into this world of hate and turmoil to demonstrate His love for us. He gave Himself as a sacrifice for our sin, while we were yet His enemies. He took our sin, shame, hate, turmoil, etc. onto Himself on the cross, and when we turn to Him to follow Him and love Him, He gives us forgiveness, healing, love, and PEACE.

 Jesus gives this peace to those who turn to Him and call out to Him by faith, through His grace. For those who follow Christ, the right will prevail, because Christ prevails. He will one day make everything right and those who follow Him will enter into His eternal kingdom and we will know Him- our peace, and we will know nothing but peace for all eternity. There may not be "peace on earth", but there is peace IN Christ while we still yet live on this earth, and a perfect peace that we look forward to and long for. I pray we will all turn to Christ as our peace, some maybe for the first time ever this Christmas.

 "For to us a child is born, to us a son is given; and the government shall be upon his shoulder, and his name shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace." Isaiah 9:6

His Law is Love and His Gospel is Peace

Christmas Reflections 2014

I realize not everyone reading this celebrates Christmas, or at least may not celebrate Christmas in a religious sense. Just humor me if you would be so kind. :)

Every time I turn on the news or see news reports on the internet I just get so heavy hearted. There is so much heartbreak in the world right now; such mass killings overseas, death from diseases like Ebola, and injustice here in the U.S. that so many still experience. Then add on all sorts of other awful things like cancer and Alzheimers and child abuse and hunger and poverty, and it is so easy to become downright depressed and hopeless. I suspect many are.

This is my third Christmas with a young baby. There is something about having a baby in my arms during Christmas that makes me more reflective about how it must have been for Mary. My heart ponders things. As I have been singing through Christmas carols this year there has been something that has stood out to me. Let me share some lines from the songs with you. I think these words speak timeless truths and apply to all the calamities and strife occurring in the world today.

O Come, O Come, Emmanuel, verse 4: “O Come, Desire of nations, bind all peoples in one heart and mind; bid envy, strife, and quarrels cease; Fill the whole world with heaven’s peace.”

Joy to the World, verse 4: “He rules the world with truth and grace, and makes the nations prove the glories of His righteousness, and wonders of His love.”

O Holy Night: “Oh holy night! The stars are brightly shining; It is the night of the dear savior's birth! Long lay the world in sin and error pining, Till he appear'd and the soul felt it's worth. A thrill of hope the weary world rejoices, For yonder breaks a new and glorious morn! Fall on your knees, Oh hear the angel voices, Oh night divine, Oh night when Christ was born.

Truly he taught us to love one another, His law is love and His gospel is peace. Chains shall he break for the slave is our brother, And in his name all oppression shall cease. Sweet hymns of joy in grateful chorus raise we, Let all within us praise his holy name. Christ is the Lord. Oh praise his name forever. His power and glory forever more proclaim. Fall on your knees…”

All the things I mentioned above can leave us hopeless, unless we know that one day things will be made right. The baby that was born to Mary grew up to be a Savior and a King. You see, Christ is the desire of all the nations. People of all nations yearn and long for a message that gives hope and peace. A message that promises that one day things will be different. Christ is that message. He came to bring unity, peace, and love. When we see unfair leaders, governments, and terrorist groups, we can be reminded that right now He rules the world with truth and grace. This world is weary. I’m weary, aren’t you? I am weary of the sickness, of the hate, of the violence, of children being beheaded because of their faith, of people being shot and killed, of gov’t that is unfair. I am weary. But, there is a thrill of hope inside my heart and I rejoice. My hope is in Christ and in eternity with Him, so this is cause of much rejoicing!

The words that have been bringing the most meaning to me this Christmas season are from O Holy Night. It says that He taught us to love one another, and that His law is LOVE and his gospel is PEACE.  We may not ever experience a law of love and a world of peace while on this earth, but one day, when we are with Christ in heaven or when He sets up His kingdom on earth, we will certainly experience a perfect law of love and a world of peace. We will truly see all people as our brother and sister with no distinction or prejudice, and all oppression will cease. Oh how I long for this day. How beautiful does that sound? And oh how it will be truly beautiful.

We can all experience that in our heart now, even in the midst of this crazy world. His gospel is peace. Those who trust in Him and believe that He is the Son of God can experience this love and peace right now. This is why we can have hope and rejoice!

“Rejoice! Rejoice! Emmanuel”  We can rejoice because Emmanuel has come. He came to give us a way to know perfect love and peace, and that way is Him. Will you celebrate Him this Christmas? Maybe for the first time. I pray you will find hope in the Christmas story in a fresh and new way this year.